[Mindset] The Art of Feedback

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[Mindset] The Art of Feedback

Post by 9TriLLo » Tue Oct 08, 2019 10:54 pm

The Art of Feedback


1. What is "feedback"?

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2. Feedback is negative only when you want to do harm to the person the feedback is about.
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3. Feedback is given only to help change a bad behavior and/or improve.
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4. One good answer to feedback is: “Thank you for trying to help me.”
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5. Avoid people who don't give you feedback, those are the people not interested in helping you.
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6. Feedback is not "flaming/insulting" somebody.
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7. Learn to receive and give feedback. It is one of the easiest way to learn and improve.
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8.
When you receive feedback, you go through:

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9. How do I know I’m feeling these:

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10. Other symptoms might include and are not limited to:

- Aggresive behavior.
- Demotivation.
- Ignorance.

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11. Levels of receiving feedback are:

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12. This is a chart that showcases your level of receiving feedback. You're your own judge here.

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13. The most important skill is to learn to receive feedback from peers downwards:

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14. People avoid to give direct feedback or become defensive when peers give feedback because of the following reasons:

Examples of valid arguments:
- I am not experienced in that genre or I didn't do it before at all.
- I know what to be said but I don't know how to say it.
- It has to be balanced.
- I don't have any answers, I don't know what they can do about it.
- I am not good at controlling people's reaction.

Examples of excuses:

- It makes me feel bad, vulnerable or/and awkward.
- I get no benefits from it anyway.
- I only give feedback when it's about something good.
- It's pointless, people don't change anyway.
- They will disagree, I know they will.
- Others will just contradict me.
- I don't want to damage the friendship or to upset that person.

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15. If you find yourself reacting defensively ask yourself the following questions:

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16. After going through this process, you will realize that only your ego was hurt.

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17. If you feel that feedback was too direct/blunt/aggressive or done in a unprofessional manner it is mandatory to do this exercise (conflict management/defusal):

> Common practice:

Provider of feedback: “You are always doing "this" wrong when you do "that.”

Receiver of feedback: “Are you telling me my RP is bad?”; “I don’t have to listen to you.”; ”Mind your business” or say nothing.

Provider of feedback: “Yes, you have to listen to me.”; ”Trust me, that’s true.” or say nothing.

- If conflict gets to a diffuser, it can be contained/solved. Usually it is swept under the rug by both parties.

> Best practice:

Provider of feedback: “You are always doing "this" wrong when you do "that.”

Receiver of feedback: “Are you telling me my RP is bad?”

Provider of feedback: “No, sorry that it came out like that, I wanted to say that you can improve in X aspect when doing "that".”

Receiver of feedback: “Okay, thank you, I will do it better from now on.”

- The conflict is diffused on the spot.

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Additional notes:

> I shaped this in a way that fits LSRP, but these practices can be applied IRL too, especially in a professional environment.

> Thanks for reading and understanding these matters, it is extremely important for us as a community to acknowledge the idea of feedback.

> If you have any questions, don't hesitate to send me a PM or add me on Discord: Wrathaholic#5591.

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Re: The Art of Feedback

Post by Aod » Tue Oct 08, 2019 11:05 pm

this is gay
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Re: [Mindset] The Art of Feedback

Post by Mood » Wed Oct 09, 2019 12:56 pm

Looks very good. I actually enjoyed reading it. Some people really need to give this a read at some point.
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Re: [Mindset] The Art of Feedback

Post by Narc » Wed Oct 09, 2019 4:46 pm

Wow I can't believe it! first time I hear about it.

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Re: [Mindset] The Art of Feedback

Post by SB » Wed Oct 16, 2019 8:59 pm

Good job.

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Re: [Mindset] The Art of Feedback

Post by bonk » Wed Oct 16, 2019 9:10 pm

Amazing, lots of people should give this a read.

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Re: [Mindset] The Art of Feedback

Post by Daylong » Wed Oct 16, 2019 10:25 pm

this is deffo worth attention, also, easy to read due to graphical explanations, good job Wrath

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Re: [Mindset] The Art of Feedback

Post by Slime.k » Fri Jan 03, 2020 1:46 am

It is easy to read, lovely

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Re: [Mindset] The Art of Feedback

Post by Legion1948 » Thu Apr 09, 2020 9:11 am

Nice

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Re: [Mindset] The Art of Feedback

Post by Octen » Wed Apr 22, 2020 4:45 am

"I'm so glad I found out about this!"
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Re: [Mindset] The Art of Feedback

Post by Jay_Willowfield » Tue Jul 28, 2020 8:18 pm

Love it!
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